Oral Sex: How to make him orgasm
Ladies, let’s be honest here. How many of you can actually say that you have gotten your man off by just the power of the tongue? If so, how long did it take?
Studies show that 77% of women in a relationship have provided oral sex but only 50% has ever made their man orgasm. That’s a low number considering that men are often more excited by the gesture than they are when it comes to penetration.
It’s just something about oral sex that wakes up every sexual bone in our body.
But, there’s an art to oral sex that often gets ignored or never talked about. Women take classes, get advice, watch Porn or any form of instructions they can to be the best at this craft. However, there is a select few that can achieve that ‘Superhead’ status.
While doing research for this, most Porn actors say that they can go 30 minutes or more without having an orgasm due to oral sex.
I’m no Porn star but I am a man who has a great amount of experience, both good and bad when it comes to this.
What I love most are the women that brag. When she tells you that she will have you eating out of her hands, only to find out that she has no clue what the hell she’s doing down there. Woman are quick to bash when a man is not able to give them oral sex correctly but let me tell some of you women, we feel the same way.
Here are a few pointers that WILL have your man eating out of your hands.
It’s Not About The Deep Throat:
That’s Porn stuff and one of the reasons why it takes your man so long to orgasm. All you’re showing is how deep your throat is. It does nothing for us sexually. It’s nice to see you do it but I want you to make me bust one not watch you gag and cough on my private parts.
Remove Your Hands From My Penis:
If I wanted someone to jerk me off, I will do that myself. Oral sex is just that, oral. Use your mouth and nothing else. We feel that if you’re using your hands, you can’t handle the duty with your mouth.
Keep It Wet
Think about it. What drives a man crazy during penetration? It’s not your moans, tits, ass or any other body part, it’s the wetness of the vagina. A wet vagina is like water to a person that has to pee. The thought and feel of water will cause a person to piss on themselves. It’s the same with oral sex. We love the term sloppy head. That’s when your mouth is so wet that it’s sliding down the penis. If you can get your mouth wet enough to a point that it feels like he was just slimmed then you will own him.
My Balls Will Not Make Me Cum
May be the most sensitive part of a man’s body. Women were taught at a young age that if you ever want to hurt a man, then punch or kick him in the balls. So why on earth would you think that I want the pressure of your lips squeezing my genitals? Some women are careful and strategic and some think they are sucking on a blow-pop. This does nothing to pleasure most men as we are too busy praying that you don’t cause us permanent damage there.
Play With The Tip
I am so baffled by this that it makes my head hurt just by thinking of if. If you follow every bit of advice that I’ve given so far, this is what it will lead you to. A wet mouth and focusing on the tip of the penis will drive EVERY man bat shit crazy. I urge all women who’s having trouble in this area to listen but to use common sense. When giving oral to a man, think of your mouth as a vagina. A dry vagina not only hurts you but us as well. The same for a dry mouth. The wetter the mouth and vagina, the best hope for an orgasm. Use the up and down motion but always, and I mean ALWAYS come back to the tip. Circular motions are the best, we feel everything. See, what happens is when it’s good oral, our mind drifts to penetration, when that happens we no longer think about the mouth that’s on us but us sliding in and out of you.
That is how you make your man orgasm.
Don’t forget the important part. No spitting allowed.
Mark has been covering Sports and Entertainment for the past six years. His work has been featured on Bleacher Report, ESPN, Fox Sports, Teen Vogue, and many other websites.
